Sweeping Out the Old
When any relationship ends, it is a good idea to let the emotional pain and turmoil settle before finding a new partner. Those who fail to do so might eventually find they are repeating the same mistakes, and they can end up with more issues. It might seem like a waste if the relationship ended with the two remaining friends, but moving on to a successful relationship often requires some reflection on a person’s habits in life. If they keep ending relationships, it might be because they are seeking the wrong type of person for a partner. Sweeping out the old illusions they have about dating can make their new adventures better.
The attraction between two people is often a mystery to those around them, but it can also be misunderstood by the partners. They can feel the chemistry they have, so they believe they have found a good partner. If either one of them is attracted to someone who restricts their freedoms or thoughts, their goal of a good relationship is compromised.
Examining the reasons a relationship failed is difficult for many because they do not want to look at their own life. It might seem best to blame it on extenuating circumstances, or they could find fault with their former partner. Those who truly want a good future with a new partner will take the time to look at what really occurred. Finding out the truth and correcting the issues might lead them to the realization that they want a relationship with a different type of person.
Dating and relationships are about connections, but there is not truly a good one if the partners are unable to sustain it. Those who are willing to take an honest look at their dating failures will be able to change the way they look at a new partnership, and they might just find the perfect one.